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This is what what sensitivity readers are for, they're just someone who can catch things like this because they have a different viewpoint and background. I doubt some of the people who are asking for one want to make your work bland or easily digestible or censored. It's honestly just a good way to get another perspective, which, I think, is very important in any kind of storytelling.

that's not the only definition of pansexual :)

pansexual can also be a preference for 3 or more genders.

good rule of thumb is not to correct someone else's identity for them. it's pretty rude. they've probably put a lot of time into finding themselves, it's not nice to police that.